Picking outfits for a family photo session sounds simple until you’re standing in everyone’s closets the night before. Colors that look fine in real life can clash, wash out, or compete on camera. And if you’re shooting for Christmas cards, the stakes are even higher.
This guide gives you what you actually need: a color palette table organized by season, a step-by-step outfit coordination method, specific holiday card photo palettes, and answers to the questions photographers get asked most.
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- Family Photo Color Palettes by Season
- Holiday Card Photo Outfits: A Dedicated Guide
- How to Coordinate Outfits Without Everyone Matching
- What NOT to Wear for Family Photos
- FAQ
- Plan Holiday Card Photos with Shutterfly
Family Photo Color Palettes by Season
Use the table below as your starting point. Pick the row that matches your session season, then choose specific shades within it. Not every family member needs to be in the same color. They just need to be in the same palette.
| Palette | Specific Colors | Best Season | Best Setting |
|---|---|---|---|
| Earth Tones | Rust, camel, olive, warm brown, cream | Fall | Outdoor parks, wooded areas, golden-hour fields |
| Soft Neutrals | Oatmeal, taupe, blush, slate, white | Year-round | Studio, beaches, light-colored home interiors |
| Dusty Pastels | Lavender, sage, soft peach, sky blue, ivory | Spring / Early Summer | Gardens, flower fields, bright outdoor settings |
| Warm Jewel Tones | Burgundy, mustard, deep teal, terracotta, forest green | Fall / Winter | Outdoor leaf backgrounds, urban brick, cozy indoor spaces |
| Denim & Cream | Medium blue denim, off-white, chambray, light khaki | Spring / Summer | Casual outdoor sessions, lifestyle home shoots |
| Holiday / Christmas | Cream cable-knit, charcoal, deep green, plaid flannel, cranberry | Winter / Holiday | Fireplace interiors, snowy outdoor scenes, holiday home settings |
How to use this table: Pick one palette, assign each family member a piece within it, and treat the table as a visual harmony check before the session.
Holiday Card Photo Outfits: A Dedicated Guide
If your photos are going on Christmas cards, your color choices do double duty. They need to look great in print as well as on camera.
When to Schedule Your Session
- Shoot in September or early October if you want relaxed turnaround time for card design and ordering.
- Shoot by late October at the latest to order cards and have them in hand before Thanksgiving weekend, when most holiday cards go out.
- Order cards by November 1 to account for standard production and shipping windows.
Already have your photos? Design your Christmas cards on Shutterfly or browse holiday card designs.
The Three Holiday Palettes That Photograph Best
Classic Christmas
Red, green, and gold is the most recognizable holiday palette. It works best when red is used as an accent (one person’s sweater or scarf) rather than the dominant color for everyone. Deep hunter green and warm gold photograph particularly well. Avoid bright Christmas-red on everyone, which tends to flatten in print.
Best for: Traditional card aesthetics, fireplace or decorated-home settings.
Winter Neutral
Cream, charcoal, and navy. One of the most requested modern Christmas card looks because it photographs cleanly and feels elegant without being costume-y. Cream cable-knit sweaters, charcoal pants or skirts, and a navy layer or accessory is a reliable formula.
Best for: Clean, modern card designs, snowy outdoor sessions, minimalist interiors.
Modern Minimal
White, sage, and champagne. A softer, contemporary palette that reads as intentional without being loud. It works especially well for families who want a card that looks stylish rather than seasonal. Pair a white linen or textured piece with sage tones and a champagne or warm metallic accessory.
Best for: Lifestyle-style photography, neutral home interiors, families who prefer understated aesthetics.
How to Coordinate Outfits Without Everyone Matching

The goal isn’t to match. It’s to coordinate. Here’s a four-step method that works for any family size.
Step 1: Pick one anchor piece.
Start with one statement piece, usually Mom’s dress, a patterned scarf, or Dad’s flannel. This is your palette source.
Step 2: Pull 3 to 4 colors from that piece.
If the anchor is a rust floral dress, your palette might be rust, cream, olive, and warm brown. Write them down.
Step 3: Assign each family member a piece within the palette.
No two people need to be in the exact same color, but every outfit should use at least one shade from the palette. Kids can wear a pattern as long as the colors stay within the family.
Step 4: Lay all outfits on the bed the night before.
Put everything flat and look at the group together. Clashes are far easier to spot before the session than in the photos.
What NOT to Wear for Family Photos

A few things to avoid, regardless of season:
- Neon or very bright colors. They create a hot spot that draws the eye away from faces.
- Large logos or text. These date quickly and distract from prints that will be displayed for years.
- Head-to-toe black on everyone. Dark colors recede and can flatten the photo. A black piece works as a supporting element, but dressing everyone in black removes warmth from the image.
- Competing busy patterns. One patterned piece per family is usually the limit.
- Wrinkles or ill-fitting pieces. Photos last. A quick steam before the session matters more than most people expect.
Frequently Asked Questions
What are the best colors to wear for family pictures?
Earth tones, soft neutrals, and muted jewel tones consistently photograph well because they are warm, non-distracting, and translate cleanly to both digital and print. Rust, sage, cream, dusty blue, warm brown, and burgundy are among the most reliable palettes. The key is choosing shades within one palette and distributing them across the family rather than dressing everyone identically.
What should you not wear for family photos?
Avoid neon colors, large logos, all-black outfits for everyone, competing busy patterns, and anything that wrinkles easily or does not fit well. These choices pull attention away from faces, date the photos quickly, or create technical problems like color cast and hot spots that are difficult to correct in editing.
What colors photograph best for Christmas cards?
The palettes that print most cleanly for Christmas cards are winter neutrals (cream, charcoal, navy), classic Christmas with accents rather than all-over red and green, and modern minimal (white, sage, champagne). If you’re ordering cards through Shutterfly, you can preview designs against your actual photo before ordering to check how your family’s colors interact with the card background and typography.
What colors work best for black and white family photos?
Think in terms of contrast rather than color. Black and white photography reads tonal differences, so the goal is a mix of light, medium, and dark pieces across the group.
A few things to keep in mind:
- Deeper tones like navy, burgundy, and forest green translate well as rich darks without going as stark as black.
- Very light colors like white and ivory read as clean, bright highlights.
- Avoid dressing everyone in similar tones. All cream or all light gray tends to flatten the group.
- Skip busy patterns. They compete for attention even more in black and white than in color.
Plan Your Holiday Card Photos with Shutterfly
Once you have your palette and session scheduled, here’s how the pieces come together:
- Shoot in September or October using one of the holiday palettes above.
- Upload and choose your favorites. Shutterfly’s photo tools let you compare and select images before you start designing.
- Pick your card design from Christmas card templates or holiday card designs, choosing layouts that complement your photo’s colors and orientation.
- Order by November 1 to allow time for production, shipping, and addressing.
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