When to Send Wedding Thank You Cards
Proper wedding etiquette suggests sending thank you cards within three months of your wedding day. The sooner you send them, the better, as your guests will appreciate the thoughtful gesture.
What to Include in Your Thank You Cards
Each thank you card should be personalized and sincere. Here’s a general outline to follow for writing your wedding thank you notes:
- Express Gratitude: Start with a warm thank you for attending your wedding and/or their gift.
- Be Specific: Mention the gift they gave or a special moment from the wedding you shared together.
- Show Appreciation for Their Support: Acknowledge how much their presence meant to you and your spouse.
- Close with Warmth: Finish with a heartfelt closing, and if applicable, mention you look forward to seeing them soon.
Wedding Thank You Card Examples
Thank You for Attending and a Gift
“Dear [Name],
Thank you so much for joining us on our wedding day! We were so happy to have you celebrate with us, and your presence truly made the day even more special. We also wanted to thank you for the beautiful [gift]—it will be such a wonderful addition to our [home/life] as we begin this new chapter together.
We feel incredibly grateful for your love and support and can’t wait to see you again soon.
With love and appreciation,
[Your Names]”
Thank You for a Monetary Gift
“Dear [Name],
We are beyond grateful for your generous wedding gift. Your kindness will help us [plan the honeymoon of our dreams/furnish our first home together/start our life as newlyweds], and we couldn’t be more excited for the adventures ahead.
Thank you also for being part of our big day. It meant the world to us to have you there celebrating such a special moment in our lives.
With heartfelt thanks,
[Your Names]”
Thank You to Guests Who Couldn’t Attend
“Dear [Name],
Though we missed you at the wedding, we felt your love and well-wishes all the way from [location]! Thank you so much for your thoughtful gift of [gift]—we absolutely love it and will cherish it for years to come.
We hope to celebrate together soon, and until then, please know how much we appreciate your support as we begin this exciting new chapter.
With love,
[Your Names]”
Thank You to the Bridal Party
“Dear [Name],
Words cannot express how thankful we are for your love, friendship, and support throughout our wedding journey. From [mention something they did or a fun moment together] to standing by our side on our big day, we couldn’t have imagined this celebration without you. Thank you also for the [gift], which is so thoughtful and perfect.
We’re so lucky to have you in our lives, and we’re looking forward to making more wonderful memories together as we continue this next chapter!
With all our love and gratitude,
[Your Names]”
Thank You for Group Gifts
“Dear [Names],
Thank you all so much for the thoughtful and generous wedding gift of [gift]. We’re excited to [use/enjoy it] and will always think of each of you when we do! We feel so lucky to have friends like you who helped make our wedding day so memorable and special.
Looking forward to seeing you all soon and celebrating again in the future!
Warmly,
[Your Names]”
Additional Tips for Wedding Thank You Cards
- Personalize each note: Even if you’re following a template, adding a personal touch like the specific gift or mentioning a shared memory from the wedding makes your thank you cards feel more meaningful.
- Use proper names: Address the thank you card to each guest by name, especially in group gifts or if the guest was part of the bridal party.
- Handwritten cards: A handwritten thank you card always adds a heartfelt touch. If time is tight, consider signing and writing a personal note on pre-printed cards to save some effort.
How Shutterfly’s Free Address Book Can Help
Once you’ve written your wedding thank you notes, the next step is sending them out. Shutterfly’s free online address book makes this process simple and stress-free. With this handy tool, you can store your contacts and addresses all in one place. By uploading your guests’ addresses, you can quickly and efficiently send your thank you cards without the hassle of tracking down everyone’s mailing details.
To get started, simply import your contacts or manually add addresses into Shutterfly’s online address book. Once saved, these addresses can be used not only for thank you cards but for future holiday cards, party invites, and more. Plus, if you used Shutterfly to send your wedding invitations, your guests’ addresses are already stored and ready for you to use.
Related Resources on Wedding Thank You Card Wording
With beautiful thank you cards and an easy way to send them, showing your gratitude has never been simpler. Whether your style is elegant, rustic, or modern, Shutterfly offers a wide range of customizable designs to perfectly match your wedding theme. Now that you have the perfect wording and a tool to make sending out your cards a breeze, you’re all set to thank your loved ones in style!
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