How to Address Wedding Invitations

Congratulations! You’re engaged! Now you get to tell all your friends and family and invite them to the best party ever — your wedding. There are a few things to note about wedding invitation wording.

Filling out invitations correctly can be a bit tricky. There are many titles to remember, spell-checks to implement, and unexpected updates to keep track of — Wow, how many times will Aunt Betsy move before the wedding? All of these details are critical to have. So we decided to create a helpful guide on how to address wedding invitation envelopes for every situation.

Keep reading for illustrated instructions showing proper etiquette for addressing the outer and inner envelopes. Or, use our interactive form for quick answers on how to address invitations for most everyone attending your wedding. Make it even easier by letting us address your invitations for you with customized address labels!

How to Address Wedding Invitations

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To a Married Couple

This is the most traditional form of addressing an invitation. Should you choose to include both persons’ names, the outer envelope can be addressed as Mr. and Mrs. HIS_FIRSTNAME LASTNAME. An alternate version includes both names as Mr. FIRSTNAME and Mrs. FIRSTNAME LASTNAME.

wedding invitation married couple same last names
alternate wedding invitation married couple same last names

To a Married Couple, Different Last Names

It’s best to list the person to whom you’re closest to first on the outer and inner envelopes. If you know each one as well as the other, you may write them in alphabetical order.

wedding invitation married couple different last names
wedding invitation married couple different last names

To an Unmarried Couple Living Together

Similar to the address for a married couple, both names should be included on the envelopes.

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alternate wedding invitation umarried couple different last names

To a Married Couple, Hyphenated Last Name

wedding invitation married couple hyphenated last names
alternate wedding invitation married couple hyphenated last names

To Those with Distinguished Titles

If only one in the couple has a distinguished title, it is proper to write his or her name and title first. If the wife has the professional title, you will address her name depending on whether or not she uses her maiden name professionally.

wedding invitation married couple with distinguished title
alternate wedding invitation married couple with distinguished title

If both parties are doctors with different last names, both their names can be written on the inner and outer envelopes.

wedding invitation married couple both doctors different last name
alternate wedding invitation married couple both doctors

If both parties are doctors with the same last name, you may address the envelopes as follows:

wedding invitation married couple both doctors with same last namealternate wedding invitation married couple both doctors with same last name

Many of the same rules that you use for doctors also apply for military personnel, judges, reverends, etc. If both parties have distinguished titles, it is best to write the person with the highest rank first. Also, make note to add “The Honorable” to a title in the case of elected government positions, excluding the President.

wedding invitation couple with distinguished title
alternate wedding invitation couple with distinguished title

To a Divorced Female

The best practice is to address her as either Mrs. or Ms. and use her maiden name if she doesn’t use her former husband’s surname.

wedding invitation to a divorced woman
alternate wedding invitation to a divorced woman

To a Widow

Traditionally, you would use the deceased husband’s last name in the address, as well as his first name. However, this depends greatly on her personal preference and what she will find respectful. Some choose to use their own first name, and sometimes also their own last name. If you’re unsure, it’s best to ask what she prefers.

wedding invitation to a widow
alternate wedding invitation to a widow

To Children and Families

Younger guests can be included on the inner envelope of their parents’ invitation listed by first name. However, children are normally not addressed on the outer envelope. For girls under 18, you’ll want to use “Miss.” Boys don’t require a title until they’re 18.

wedding invitation to children and families
alternate wedding invitation to children and families

To People 18 and Older

Unless they live at home with their parents, they should receive their own invitations.

wedding invitation to children and families
alternate wedding invitation to children and families

Would you like to receive invitations that dazzle? Check out our wedding invitations for all your addressing needs or request free wedding invitation samples. And thinking about adding more personalization to your wedding invites? Visit our wedding hashtag generator and our wedding invitation wording for some fun inspiration.